sex and the heavy wife
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Let me say a few things about the topic. 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. Just as most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they should live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions regarding his wife. 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and counterproductive. To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size is unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not correlated with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good partners. One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding weight are appropriate.
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"Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Let me say a few things about the topic. > 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. Just as > most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they should > live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions > regarding his wife. > 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and counterproductive. > To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size is > unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not correlated > with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good partners. > One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding weight > are appropriate.
this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting married. If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the same. oh and vaginal size may not be affected by the weight but it’s dam sure a turn off if you have to reposition the lard surrounding it to get to the promise land.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Arthur" <karthu…@msn.com> wrote in message <news:410d5dcb$0$20996$9a6e19ea@news.newshosting.com>… > "Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message > news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… > > Let me say a few things about the topic. > > 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. > Just as > > most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they > should > > live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions > > regarding his wife. > > 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and > counterproductive. > > To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size > is > > unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not > correlated > > with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good > partners. > > One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding > weight > > are appropriate. > this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting > married. > If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the same.
You know, everyone acts like when you get married that it’s supposed to be forever. Do you know how many people out there get married, have kids, get divorced and get remarried to someone else (or stay single) and the kids grow up perfectly normal? Some people make marriage sound like a life deal. It doesn’t always work out that way. People change. Life does go on. > oh and vaginal size may not be affected by the weight but it’s dam sure a > turn off if you have to reposition the lard surrounding it to get to the > promise land.
You got that right brother.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Terry wrote: > "Arthur" <karthu…@msn.com> wrote in message > <news:410d5dcb$0$20996$9a6e19ea@news.newshosting.com>… >> "Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message >> news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… >>> Let me say a few things about the topic. >>> 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. Just as >>> most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they >> should >>> live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions >>> regarding his wife. >>> 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and counterproductive. >>> To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size is >>> unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not correlated >>> with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good partners. >>> One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding weight >>> are appropriate. >> this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting married. >> If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the same. > You know, everyone acts like when you get married that it’s supposed > to be forever. Do you know how many people out there get married, > have kids, get divorced and get remarried to someone else (or stay > single) and the kids grow up perfectly normal? Some people make > marriage sound like a life deal. It doesn’t always work out that way. > People change. Life does go on.
The divorce rate these days is around 50%, I believe. Whatever that tells you (well, actually that’s rhetorical, isn’t it).
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On 1 Aug 2004 19:36:27 -0700, Terry – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -<saxxxa…@yahoo.com> wrote: > "Arthur" <karthu…@msn.com> wrote in message <news:410d5dcb$0$20996$9a6e19ea@news.newshosting.com>… >> "Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message >> news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… >> > Let me say a few things about the topic. >> > 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. >> Just as >> > most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they >> should >> > live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions >> > regarding his wife. >> > 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and >> counterproductive. >> > To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size >> is >> > unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not >> correlated >> > with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good >> partners. >> > One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding >> weight >> > are appropriate. >> this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting >> married. >> If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the same. > You know, everyone acts like when you get married that it’s supposed > to be forever. Do you know how many people out there get married, > have kids, get divorced and get remarried to someone else (or stay > single) and the kids grow up perfectly normal? Some people make > marriage sound like a life deal. It doesn’t always work out that way. > People change. Life does go on.
If that’s your attitude, maybe you ought to move this to alt.support.divorce. -Tony — "If the grass appears to be greener on the other side of the fence, it’s time to fertilize your lawn!" Want to jump start your marriage? Consider a Marriage Encounter weekend. Check out http://www.wwme.org for more information.
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Arthur wrote: > "Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message > news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… >> Let me say a few things about the topic. >> 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. > Just as >> most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they > should >> live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions >> regarding his wife. >> 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and > counterproductive. >> To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size > is >> unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not > correlated >> with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good > partners. >> One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding > weight >> are appropriate. > this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting > married. > If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the > same. > oh and vaginal size may not be affected by the weight but it’s dam sure a > turn off if you have to reposition the lard surrounding it to get to the > promise land.
And if she is too heavy to lift herself; but:- It depends on whether you want a body or a person. Doug. — ICQ Number 178748389. Registered Linux User No. 277548. Let’s explore. If we don’t find something pleasant, we will at least find something new. – Voltaire.
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Look, weight *does* get in the way, especially when non-PIV is a non-starter. Being a cunning linguist is also difficult since everything is obscured by the angle. That being said, in the case where the body is "apple" shaped rather than "pear", "T", "doggy" and even "spoon" will work reasonably well. Only in doggy can the male show much enthusiasm; the other two are much slower. I have _no_ idea (beyond "doggy") for those with a wife that is pear-shaped. As for overweight men w/ the same factors, I don’t know. I’m over-weight but not to that degree. Knowing, could say. Not knowing so cannot say. — Jack C Lipton | cupasoup at pele dot cx | http://www.asstr.org/~CupaSoup/ "While life is too short to be taken seriously, it also lasts for far too long to spend it with a stick up your ass." - me
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Doug Laidlaw <laidl…@myaccess.com.au> wrote in message <news:3224u1-134.ln1@dougshost.mydomain.org.au>… > Arthur wrote: > > "Hopey5000" <hopey5…@aol.com> wrote in message > > news:20040801131207.04469.00000633@mb-m27.aol.com… > >> Let me say a few things about the topic. > >> 1. Being honest and making suggestions about a partner is appropriate. > Just as > >> most woman do not keep quiet about how much a husband makes, where they > should > >> live, and how he dresses, a man should be able to make a few suggestions > >> regarding his wife. > >> 2. To simply eliminate sex or punish one’s wife is mean and > counterproductive. > >> To say that weight signficantly impacts sex is not accurate. Vaginal size > is > >> unaffected by weight. Oral sex can be nice. Good sex simply is not > correlated > >> with weight; thin women can be inhibited, heavier women can be good > partners. > >> One should enjoy a good sex life, but suggestions put nicely regarding > weight > >> are appropriate. > > this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before getting > > married. > > If you take pride on the way you look make sure your partner does the > > same. > > oh and vaginal size may not be affected by the weight but it’s dam sure a > > turn off if you have to reposition the lard surrounding it to get to the > > promise land. > And if she is too heavy to lift herself; but:- > It depends on whether you want a body or a person.
First of all, on this Astral Plain, persons come along with bodies. Only in your dreams can the two be dealt with seperately. Second, it is a cruel bit of dis-information to suggest that either men or women stop caring about the things that they find sxually attractive when they get to know someone better. Consider a married guy who suddenly quits his good job and slobs around the house for no good reason. Maybe his true inner self is the exact same, but you can be sure his wife will stop wanting to have sex with him. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Doug.
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cupas…@peElMe.cx (Jack C Lipton) wrote in message <news:slrncgvka3.sma.cupasoup@soup2nets.net.dhis.org>… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Look, weight *does* get in the way, especially when > non-PIV is a non-starter. Being a cunning linguist > is also difficult since everything is obscured by > the angle. > That being said, in the case where the body is > "apple" shaped rather than "pear", "T", "doggy" and > even "spoon" will work reasonably well. Only in > doggy can the male show much enthusiasm; the other > two are much slower. > I have _no_ idea (beyond "doggy") for those with a > wife that is pear-shaped. > As for overweight men w/ the same factors, I don’t > know. I’m over-weight but not to that degree. > Knowing, could say. Not knowing so cannot say.
How much weight are we discussing??? An elephant?
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You don’t have to become fat. its a choice, maybe an unconscious one, but its still a choice. "Ignoramus24751" <ignoramus24…@NOSPAM.24751.invalid> wrote in message
news:cejqtq$i2r$3@pita.alt.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> In article <410d5dcb$0$20996$9a6e1…@news.newshosting.com>, Arthur wrote: > > this problem wouldn’t exist if people used their heads before > > getting married. If you take pride on the way you look make sure > > your partner does the same. > Unfortunately, people change and even good looking people, taking > pride etc, one day can easily become fat. There is no assurance. If a > person’s parents and grandparents were all slim though, that’s a good > sign. > i
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Caren wrote: > Jack C Lipton blathered on and on and on: >> As for overweight men w/ the same factors, I don’t >> know. I’m over-weight but not to that degree. >> Knowing, could say. Not knowing so cannot say. > How much weight are we discussing??? An elephant?
Well, my wife is approx 150 over; I’m somewhere around 50 over, perhaps more like 60+. In the case of my wife it’s the additional problems the weight exacerbates (arthritis, fibromyalgia) that are more of a problem than the weight itself. Of course her lack of enthusiasm (it’s amazing I can get so strung out that I can forget about this and actually show sexual interest myself) provides some of the greatest emotional friction; her weight and her "issues" from her weight are minor by comparison. We _do_ care about each other, despite the frictions, so the weight doesn’t impact her attractiveness to me as much as any of the other issues. — Jack C Lipton | cupasoup at pele dot cx | http://www.asstr.org/~CupaSoup/ "While life is too short to be taken seriously, it also lasts for far too long to spend it with a stick up your ass." - me
