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P. Gregory Frey Divorce & Family Law Attorney in Honolulu, HI

Honolulu, HI 96813

P. Gregory Frey is a family lawyer in Honolulu, Hawaii, helping clients with child custody, divorce, domestic violence, and alimony.

P. Gregory Frey helps clients in Honolulu and throughout Hawaii with divorce and family law matters.

Updated: October 13, 2026 · General information, not legal advice

Focus
Alimony & Spousal Support, Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Father's Rights, Marital Property, Paternity, Prenuptial Agreements, Same Sex Family Law
Family law matters in Honolulu
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Contact
Phone: +18084584681
Address: 900 Fort Street Mall, Suite 1400 · Honolulu, HI 96813
Website: https://www.coatesandfrey.com
Background
Licensed state: Hawaii
Licensed since: 1987
Law school: Willamette University College of Law
Education: eCornell University, Conflict Resolution Certificate, 2021; Saint Louis High School (Honolulu, Hawai'i), High School Diploma, with Honors (ranked #10 in Class of over 250)., 1979; Willamette University, College of Law, J.D., 1986; Honolulu University, M.A., Psychology., 2002; Santa Clara University, B.A., History. (Inducted in 2018 to the SCU Rugby Hall of Fame as a member of the 1983 team, SCUTS, the winniest Rugby team in school history, 21-2, ranked #3 nationally in NCAA)., 1983
Certifications: Formally trained Mediator (Mediation Center of the Pacific, fka Neighborhood Justice Center) & Senior Mediator, Divorce with Decency, a mediation clinic.; eCornell University, Conflict Resolution Certificate, 2021
Professional activity: President-elect, Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA"); Board member, Hawaii State Bar Foundation, 2021 - present; President, Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA") ( First Hawaii attorney who practices solely in the areas of divorce & family law to be elected to lead the Island State's approximate 8,500 lawyers).; Former Chair, Family Law Section, Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA"); Vice-President, Hawai'i State Bar Association ("HSBA"); Former Appointed Member of the Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA")Judicial Evaluation Commitee; Member of the Hawaii State Bar, 1987-present.; Former O'ahu Director, Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA"), 2003 - 2009; Appointed Member of the Hawaii State Bar Association ("HSBA") Nominating Commitee
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